In trying to navigate the gay (white) world as a brown/black guy who is exploring kink I have often run into ideas that are contarary to who i think of myself.
When people try to make contact and the issue of role comes up I tell them that I am a sub bottom, almost shocking them. As a brown/black boy I am often asked to be a slave instead of the sub that I am or a Top instead of the versitile bottom that I am. ...
THe Last thing i want to do in the bdsm world is misrepresent my spirit......
Wonder if anyone has run into similar or any other walls while trying to explore the kink world?
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